Sympathy: Be the Example

Sympathy: Be the Example
By: Neil Siskind

 

Some kids are born with the ability to sympathize. Some need to be taught. Some kids have it inside them but need to see how it applies. Some are born without any sympathetic emotions at all. Some kids learn to ignore feelings or thoughts of sympathy and numb themselves to others due to their own problems. Some have anger so great that it far outweighs and overcomes any ability to sympathize.

If you want kids to have sympathy, and to show sympathy, and to not harm others out of rage, ignorance or confusion, then make time to teach it. Make time to teach a kid without a father what it means to have sympathy. Taking your time to do this shows sympathy towards a child and his or her circumstances- and is the most powerful way to engender and ignite his or her feelings of sympathy for others.

 

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What A Wonderful Camp

Camp Hometown Heroes Is A Free National Summer Camp For Children Who Have Lost A Parent, Sibling Or Other Loved One Who Served In The U.S. Military.

 Camp Hometown Heroes is a national free week-long overnight summer camp for children and siblings between the ages of seven to seventeen of fallen U.S. service members who died in any manner: combat, accident, illness or suicide. During their visit to camp, perhaps for the first time in their young lives, the children have the opportunity to openly discuss their feelings and experiences. Through the support of pediatric grief specialists, the children partake in art and music therapy programs and optional discussion groups.

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Bullied

When I see these stories, the first thing I wonder is, “Where is the father?”.  And I am not surprised when I see that often there is not one around; just a mother on her own, like in this story. Bullies are mean, in real life and on the Internet. They are people who just look for ways to hurt others however they can- and the truth is that they themselves are angry, feel helpless and are hurting. But that is no excuse for cruelty, violence or humiliation towards other people (or animals). If you know of a child being bullied who probably needs paternal protection- step in.
Neil S. Siskind, Founder & Chairman

http://abcnews.go.com/US/video/punishers-biker-club-takes-year-olds-school-bullies-39397549

National Fatherhood Day- A “Do” Day

National Fatherhood Day- A “Do” Day
By: Neil Siskind

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Neil S. Siskind, Founder & Chairman

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National Fatherhood Day™ is not just a day of recognition of the importance of fatherhood. It is a day to “do” something for a youth in need. It is a day of “action”.

National Fatherhood Day™ is not just a day for our country to think about issues and to pontificate and ruminate over the meaning of fatherhood and the needs of youth without fathers- it is a day to take action and a day to inspire and to give hope where there may be hopelessness.

Likewise, The Fatherhood Assignment, while about collecting information and sharing ideas, is not just about creating awareness; it is about instilling compassion- and inspiring action out of that compassion. “Action” is necessary to meet our goal of changing lives.

Even though National Fatherhood Day™, every March 29th, is only one day each year, it is meant to bring awareness of the need to “do” throughout the entire coming year to bring fatherhood into the lives of youth lacking it. Children and teens without fathers are starved for male role models who care, to whom they can ask questions, from whom they can get information, from whom they can learn, who they can emulate, and with whom they can have a paternal-like connection.

Do you want your life to be meaningful? On National Fatherhood Day™, provide a child or teen who has no father with the experience of having a father, the feeling of love from a paternal figure, the feeling of security provided by the presence a male adult, and the feeling that someone has compassion for his or her void. Do this, and to him or her… you will become the most meaningful person on earth.

 

 

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Alexander Hamilton Had an Absentee Father

Here are some of the “Hamilton Mixtape” lyrics from the play “Hamilton” showing that Hamilton had an absent father and overcame the challenge (some lyrics were altered for appropriateness). It is an inspirational story. Times are surely different today with the challenges to kids being far greater in many ways. But it still helps to have an example from whom to learn. That said, the best example is always a person who is directly in your life.

-Neil Siskind, Founder & Chairman

 

Lyrics:

How does an orphan son of a women
And a Scotsman, dropped in the middle of a forgotten spot
In the Caribbean by Providence, impoverished, in squalor
Grow up to be a hero and a scholar?
The ten-dollar Founding Father without a father
Got a lot farther
By workin’ a lot harder
By bein’ a lot smarter
By bein’ a self-starter
By fourteen they had placed him in charge of the trade and charter
And every day while slaves were being slaughtered
And carted away across the waves
Our Hamilton kept his guard up
Inside he was longing for something to be a part of
The brother was ready to beg steal borrow or barter
Then a hurricane came and
Devastation reigned and
Our man saw his future drip drippin’ down the drain
Put a pencil to his temple
Connected it to his brain
And he wrote his first refrain
A testament to his pain
When the word got around, they said, “This kid is insane, man!”
Took up a collection just to send him to the mainland
Getcha education, don’t forget from whence you came
And the world is gonna know your name!
What’s your name, man?

[Hook]
Alexander Hamilton, his name is Alexander Hamilton
And there’s a million things he hasn’t done
But just you wait, just you wait

[Verse 2]
When he was 10, his father split
Full of it, debt-ridden
Two years later, see Alex and his mother, bed-ridden
Half-dead, sittin’ in their own sick, the scent thick
And Alex got better but his mother went quick
Moved in with a cousin, the cousin committed suicide
Left him with nothin’ but ruined pride
Somethin’ new inside
A voice saying Alex, you gotta fend for yourself
He started retreatin’ and readin’ every treatise on the shelf
There would’ve been nothin’ left to do
For someone less astute
He would’ve been dead or destitute
Without a cent of restitution
Started workin’, clerkin’ for his late mother’s landlord
Tradin’ sugar cane and rum and other things he can’t afford
Scannin’ for every book he can get his hands on
Plannin’ for the future, see him now as he stands on
The bow of a ship headed for a new land
In New York you can be a new man
The ship is in the harbor now
See if you can spot him
Another immigrant comin’ up from the bottom.

 

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